The Art of Healthy Communication
Say hello to healthy communication for the rest of your life.
The Art of Healthy Communication
In this course, you’ll learn how to communicate effectively, how to avoid and handle common misunderstandings, and develop skills that foster deeper, more meaningful connections. You will also discover how to improve your current communication skills with practical techniques, real-world examples, and exercises designed with all of my time as a practicing clinician to help you navigate any conversation and connection with confidence.
Whether you're looking to strengthen your relationships, resolve conflicts, or simply gain more confidence in your abilities, this course will equip you with the tools you need. Get ready to unlock the secrets of how to build healthy relationship and connections through your newfound communication abilities that will build trust, respect, and connection.
Below you will find the course outline, as well as, a place to track your overall progress. When you feel ready to begin, go ahead a select the START COURSE button below. If you have yet to purchase access to the entire course, please feel free to view the introduction, as well as, Chapter 2: The Foundations! Good luck, and like always, happy learning!
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Course Introduction
Welcome to the beginning of your communication overhaul, we are happy to have you. We wanted to take an appropriate amount of time to welcome you to the material you are about to embark on, and why I chose to make this course. Happy learning, and happy communicating.
Welcome to the beginning of your communication overhaul, we are happy to have you. We wanted to take an appropriate amount of time to welcome you to the material you are about to embark on, and why I chose to make this course. Happy learning, and happy communicating.
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Section 1 - Introduction
Lasting change starts with a healthy and confident foundation. In this chapter, we will begin constructing the foundational aspects of your new communication style.
Lasting change starts with a healthy and confident foundation. In this chapter, we will begin constructing the foundational aspects of your new communication style.
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Section 2 - Goal Setting
Before we begin to lay the bricks of the house, we have to first have a vision in mind. To begin this process effectively, we need to iron out what is it you want to get out of this course when it is completed.
Before we begin to lay the bricks of the house, we have to first have a vision in mind. To begin this process effectively, we need to iron out what is it you want to get out of this course when it is completed.
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Section 3 - Communication Difficulties
We can only improve so far when focusing solely on our strengths. We need to challenge ourselves to grow within areas where we may struggle. This section is all about the process of identifying where our communication difficulties are.
We can only improve so far when focusing solely on our strengths. We need to challenge ourselves to grow within areas where we may struggle. This section is all about the process of identifying where our communication difficulties are.
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Section 4 - What Do I Need?
We all have needs. In order to be a healthy communicator, and person for that matter, we have to learn that our needs have to be advocated for. We have to begin to understand how to get those needs met.
We all have needs. In order to be a healthy communicator, and person for that matter, we have to learn that our needs have to be advocated for. We have to begin to understand how to get those needs met.
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Section 5 - Accountability
To take ownership of your experience is to empower the remainder of your journey in this course. Without it, we become passengers rather than leaders. It is time to take the leadership role within your communication.
To take ownership of your experience is to empower the remainder of your journey in this course. Without it, we become passengers rather than leaders. It is time to take the leadership role within your communication.
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Section 6 - How the Body Communicates
The body will always communicate to others. We are all social animals, and how we present to others is profoundly important. A large part of that is what we are saying with our bodies, so it is time to let them speak well on our behalf.
The body will always communicate to others. We are all social animals, and how we present to others is profoundly important. A large part of that is what we are saying with our bodies, so it is time to let them speak well on our behalf.
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Section 7 - The Importance of Patience
Patience is mandatory for peace and inner harmony. Patience will allow others the time it takes to truly learn your new style of communicating, and it will allow your internal systems and structures the safety to change over time.
Patience is mandatory for peace and inner harmony. Patience will allow others the time it takes to truly learn your new style of communicating, and it will allow your internal systems and structures the safety to change over time.
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Everyday Concentrations
The longest lasting implementations of healthy change comes with the dedication to simple tasks executed daily. This section gives a number of such items to pay attention to, and begin attuning your focus to regularly.
The longest lasting implementations of healthy change comes with the dedication to simple tasks executed daily. This section gives a number of such items to pay attention to, and begin attuning your focus to regularly.
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Introduction
We all will need to ask for something at some point in the very near future. This chapter will help alleviate the anxiety and pressure surrounding this task. My hope for you is that you begin to get so much more need fulfillment, and life can become easier as a result.
We all will need to ask for something at some point in the very near future. This chapter will help alleviate the anxiety and pressure surrounding this task. My hope for you is that you begin to get so much more need fulfillment, and life can become easier as a result.
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Mandatory Mind Shifts
To get into this boat with me and experience this type of change, there are shifts and changes we need to make in how we currently approach asking for things. This sections details those mind shifts, and will assist you in maintaining a healthy, productive focus.
To get into this boat with me and experience this type of change, there are shifts and changes we need to make in how we currently approach asking for things. This sections details those mind shifts, and will assist you in maintaining a healthy, productive focus.
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The Importance of I Statements
When asking for anything, we have to start with our perspective, and our views. We do this by leveraging I statements. I statements are statements that start with what you are observing, feeling, noticing, etc. We will replace those ineffective you and why statements over time!
When asking for anything, we have to start with our perspective, and our views. We do this by leveraging I statements. I statements are statements that start with what you are observing, feeling, noticing, etc. We will replace those ineffective you and why statements over time!
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The Communication Blueprint
This section’s goal is to give you a system to master over time. When we have a guide, we can begin to practice. This is my version of this. Over thousands of clinical hours, this is how I train all of my fellow clinicians, clients, and consulting clients to ask for anything they need.
This section’s goal is to give you a system to master over time. When we have a guide, we can begin to practice. This is my version of this. Over thousands of clinical hours, this is how I train all of my fellow clinicians, clients, and consulting clients to ask for anything they need.
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The Revolving Door
When asking for your needs to be fulfilled, there will be moments of challenge and difficulty. These are normal and expected, as we are all human after all. The objective of the revolving door is to explain to you that we have the ability to softly and skillfully return to our request time and time again.
When asking for your needs to be fulfilled, there will be moments of challenge and difficulty. These are normal and expected, as we are all human after all. The objective of the revolving door is to explain to you that we have the ability to softly and skillfully return to our request time and time again.
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DEAR MAN
This is the first DBT Skills Work Section: DEAR MAN. The following sections will round out the trio of skills, and give you well-formulated handouts to be backups to practice with.
This is the first DBT Skills Work Section: DEAR MAN. The following sections will round out the trio of skills, and give you well-formulated handouts to be backups to practice with.
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GIVE
GIVE is formulated to instruct individuals on how they can communicate with individuals in a gentle, loving manner. This is used to help bolster your learning by providing you more examples of different structures you can follow.
GIVE is formulated to instruct individuals on how they can communicate with individuals in a gentle, loving manner. This is used to help bolster your learning by providing you more examples of different structures you can follow.
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FAST
FAST is a system of communication utilized for when you need to stand your ground, represent your values, or stick up for yourself if you feel disrespected.
FAST is a system of communication utilized for when you need to stand your ground, represent your values, or stick up for yourself if you feel disrespected.
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Section 1 - Introduction
The word no has a myriad of different attachments to it. For some, it is their strongest word, and for others, it might as well not be in their vocabulary. Our goal within this chapter is to healthily balance out your usage of the word no.
The word no has a myriad of different attachments to it. For some, it is their strongest word, and for others, it might as well not be in their vocabulary. Our goal within this chapter is to healthily balance out your usage of the word no.
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Section 2 - No, The Complete Sentence
Some people will always want an explanation from you. Some of those individuals are genuinely curious, some are just trying to convince you to say yes. This section details why the single word no can sometimes be the perfect one word sentence.
Some people will always want an explanation from you. Some of those individuals are genuinely curious, some are just trying to convince you to say yes. This section details why the single word no can sometimes be the perfect one word sentence.
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Section 3 - The Power of The Word No
My no used to be non-existent. Now it is one of my strongest words I use. We all have to assess the power this word has, and this section begins to illustrate this concept.
My no used to be non-existent. Now it is one of my strongest words I use. We all have to assess the power this word has, and this section begins to illustrate this concept.
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Section 4 - The No Blueprint
Saying no is a concept that we can very easily adapt our communication blueprint from earlier around. This section speaks on how one can do this, and how to use it effectively.
Saying no is a concept that we can very easily adapt our communication blueprint from earlier around. This section speaks on how one can do this, and how to use it effectively.
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Section 5 - Emotional Attachments to No
When you are presented with a situation in which you want to say no, how provoking is that situation for you? Do you have a negative attachment to the word no? This section aims to shed some light on these concepts, and to help expand our idea around the word no.
When you are presented with a situation in which you want to say no, how provoking is that situation for you? Do you have a negative attachment to the word no? This section aims to shed some light on these concepts, and to help expand our idea around the word no.
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Section 6 - The Context of The No
When talking about communication, context is everything. When we are assessing when and how to implement our no, we need to take stock of the contextual moment we are in. This section dives deeper into this concept.
When talking about communication, context is everything. When we are assessing when and how to implement our no, we need to take stock of the contextual moment we are in. This section dives deeper into this concept.
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Section 7 - The Internal No
Discipline is very in vogue right now. Everywhere you look, it is being talked about. I am no exception. The reason being is that if we learn to hone our ability to tell ourselves no when faced with things we know will set us back, we actively improve right there in that moment.
Discipline is very in vogue right now. Everywhere you look, it is being talked about. I am no exception. The reason being is that if we learn to hone our ability to tell ourselves no when faced with things we know will set us back, we actively improve right there in that moment.
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Collaboration Vs. Competition
Collaboration is the lifeblood in which healthy connection builds. To choose to collaborate and not compete directly with someone in your communication journey is to offer them a bridge into mutual growth. This section aims to further illustrate the impact of collaboration and competition on communication outcomes.
Collaboration is the lifeblood in which healthy connection builds. To choose to collaborate and not compete directly with someone in your communication journey is to offer them a bridge into mutual growth. This section aims to further illustrate the impact of collaboration and competition on communication outcomes.
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Section 1 - Setting Boundaries Introduction
Boundaries are essentials components of a sense of communication safety. When we take the time to finely craft our boundaries, we can effectively navigate challenging environments, and also, can keep ourselves safe during the interaction.
Boundaries are essentials components of a sense of communication safety. When we take the time to finely craft our boundaries, we can effectively navigate challenging environments, and also, can keep ourselves safe during the interaction.
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Section 2 - The Why
We all need to evaluate and analyze our why on a consistent basis. If we are not guided by any sort of compass, how do we know where to travel? This section provides insight into why this concept accelerates healthy communication.
We all need to evaluate and analyze our why on a consistent basis. If we are not guided by any sort of compass, how do we know where to travel? This section provides insight into why this concept accelerates healthy communication.
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Section 3 - The Importance of Maintaining Boundaries
Maintenance is an act of love. To keep something running in acceptable condition is an undertaking we do because we know it is worth it in the long run. Boundaries are the same. They need to be kept up, they need to be well maintained and examined.
Maintenance is an act of love. To keep something running in acceptable condition is an undertaking we do because we know it is worth it in the long run. Boundaries are the same. They need to be kept up, they need to be well maintained and examined.
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Section 4 - The Addition to The Communication Blueprint
The communication blueprint is an ever growing concept that I love to build upon like a modular hub of skills usage. This way, we can always feel like we are building upon our foundation. This section details how to do so with our boundaries.
The communication blueprint is an ever growing concept that I love to build upon like a modular hub of skills usage. This way, we can always feel like we are building upon our foundation. This section details how to do so with our boundaries.
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Section 1 - Directness Introduction
Indirectness and passivity rewards you with disappointment, resentment and eventual contempt. Directness on the other hand rewards you with confidence, actionable results, clarity and agency. This section works to try and convince you of these concepts.
Indirectness and passivity rewards you with disappointment, resentment and eventual contempt. Directness on the other hand rewards you with confidence, actionable results, clarity and agency. This section works to try and convince you of these concepts.
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Section 2 - Directness Continued
Being direct is a gift to your past, present and future self. The reason being is that the only way to effective get what you need, is to directly pursue them. I do not want your life, and your communication journey to be subject to chance and wishful thinking. I want your success determined by your own ability and execution of these concepts.
Being direct is a gift to your past, present and future self. The reason being is that the only way to effective get what you need, is to directly pursue them. I do not want your life, and your communication journey to be subject to chance and wishful thinking. I want your success determined by your own ability and execution of these concepts.
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The Authentic Apology
Everyone makes mistakes - I make plenty. We need to learn how and when to effectively and authentically offer an apology to someone else. We also have to learn how to implement the change required to make an apology a lived experience, not just words that will fade to time.
Everyone makes mistakes - I make plenty. We need to learn how and when to effectively and authentically offer an apology to someone else. We also have to learn how to implement the change required to make an apology a lived experience, not just words that will fade to time.
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Healthy Disagreements
Everyone has differing perspectives, opinions, values, ideas, etc. You are going to find yourself engaged within conversation with someone you disagree with eventually, so we need to know how to healthily and respectfully have that conversation.
Everyone has differing perspectives, opinions, values, ideas, etc. You are going to find yourself engaged within conversation with someone you disagree with eventually, so we need to know how to healthily and respectfully have that conversation.
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Section 1 - You Are Good Enough
For some of us, there are narratives we carry around internally that we are some bad, broken thing. That could NOT be further from the truth. We are all born good enough and worthy of receiving pleasant loving treatment. This section begins to shine a light on these concepts.
For some of us, there are narratives we carry around internally that we are some bad, broken thing. That could NOT be further from the truth. We are all born good enough and worthy of receiving pleasant loving treatment. This section begins to shine a light on these concepts.
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Section 2 - A Question for Yourself
To remain open, and to remain curious is to remain healthy and alive. We will all change, it is impossible to stop. How are you embracing those concepts, how willing are you to strive for something new.
To remain open, and to remain curious is to remain healthy and alive. We will all change, it is impossible to stop. How are you embracing those concepts, how willing are you to strive for something new.
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A Message From Me to You
You never have to go about this journey alone. Reach out to me via the website when you have questions. You will do great with all this new material, and we are all excited to experience not only your communication growth, but your growth as a person.
You never have to go about this journey alone. Reach out to me via the website when you have questions. You will do great with all this new material, and we are all excited to experience not only your communication growth, but your growth as a person.
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